You've heard silence is golden—and it's true.
One of my favorite verses is Ecclesiastes 5:2, "For God is in heaven and you are on the earth. Therefore, may your words be few." James tells us to guard the tongue. I often get in less trouble when I talk less.
And, maybe this is exactly the encouragement you need from this post. Quit talking long enough to think before you speak—or before you post on Facebook!
But, silence can also be deadly.
Especially in a team environment, in an organizational structure or in a relational setting—anywhere people are closely involved with other people—silence can be a curse. When working on a project, implementing change or planning for the future, silence can kill you!
The point of this post is simply to remind you: People only know what they know. They often won't know what they need to know unless you tell them.
In the process of leading people, keep people updated with what you know. Even if you don't have all the answers, let them have the answers you do have.
When people don't have information, they tend to invent their own scenarios.
Silence fuels rumors. Peopel make up stories. They stretch and fabricate what the little they do know. Fear, tension and frustrations rise. Even those who were once fully invested often become discouraged. Morale is injured and enthusiasm wanes.
And all of these mostly emotionally-driven reactions are fueled by the unknown—by silence.
In my experience, people will be more patient if they receive adequate communication while they wait for the final details. Of course, the main thing people need to know is the why behind what you are doing—and you must keep reminding them—but they also want details of progress along the way. If you want to keep progress moving forward, break the silence and share information. Keep people informed. Communicate!
Have you experienced the pain of silence in a team, organizational or relationship setting?
Ron Edmondson is the senior pastor at Immanuel Baptist Church in Lexington, Kentucky. For the original article, visit ronedmondson.com.
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