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Most pastors in America realize the problem of cohabitation among unwed parents has become a cultural norm—one that's often just as common in the church as outside it. But across the Pond, the moral dilemma is being addressed by the Church of England with what one bishop calls a "nutty" solution.

Beginning this week, Anglican leaders can now officiate a "hatch-and-match" service—for the equivalent of $450 per ceremony—that both marries unwed couples and baptizes their children. Responding to recent reports that show almost 44 percent of children in England are born to unwed mothers, the Church says it aims to reconcile families "living in sin" while offering services that are more relevant to the average British family.

“I suspect a lot of clergy have done services like this already," said Michael Scott-Joynt, bishop of Winchester. "This will help clergy who might not otherwise feel competent when asked to do this.”

As expected, however, not every church leader thinks this is a good idea. "It is a pity they have not put in a funeral for grandma as well," joked Fulham Bishop John Broadhurst. "What are they playing at? It seems trendy, and it reveals a complete lack of awareness of the reality of what goes on in parishes.”

Other critics offered harsher opinions, specifically concerning the misunderstanding this could create on the Church's stance on marriage and its "lax" treatment of baptism. Yet representatives from the Church of England say it's merely a case of adjusting to contemporary culture.

“This does not mean the Church is changing its teaching," said Stephen Platten, bishop of Wakefield and chairman of the group that created the two-in-one liturgy. "This is a way for the Church to reinforce its commitment to marriage. The Church has always attempted to meet people where they are. But it has also tried to teach something of what it believes the Christian faith to be.” [timesonline.co.uk, 7/23/09]

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0 #5 Crystal L Brooks 2009-08-02 07:34
I think what they are doing is a great idea. If you read the paper, you know people are putting off getting married and having children. So they shack up as a result. Some people don't even see the need to get married anymore. And the church is no example since our divorce rate is just as high. You have folks who are coming to church in this lifestyle. What better way to reach them then to encourage marriage and offer an inexpensive fee for them to get married and bless their children. People are suffering economically. They are under more stress. How can a man take care of his family if he's not working? I didn't get the impression they were willing to marry just anybody. I think the goal is to have them marry and come alongside them in the faith. At least they are trying to do something about this. What is the church in America doing about it?
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0 #4 Jason Jeffery 2009-07-30 01:15
The Church of England is missing the point here. The purpose of the Church is to preach the Gospel and the needs to repentance and faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Yes, it's a step in the right direction to reach out to non-Christian couples and offer the blessing of the union of marriage but unless the gospel is preached to them and they accept Jesus Christ they are still dead in their sins and the Gospel suffers greatly. Also, the Church of England needs to stress that baptism does NOT equate to salvation; it should be a demonstration of acceptance into the family of God.
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+1 #3 Philip & Pat Taylor 2009-07-24 12:02
Gave the wrong impression here! These couples who married as a result of the course did so as a recognition of their wrong- doing. For some it was their first step towards God, and an opportunity to continue to minister to them in the church community.
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0 #2 Jazzy 2009-07-24 11:54
Two comments
1) Getting people who are living in sin to get married without actually REPENTING of their sin is not the way to go. Going into God's house and asking Him to bless their union after they have blatantly rebelled against His law is extremely presumptuous.

2) If the church was more relevant to single people and treated them in accordance with Scripture perhaps they would not be living in sin in the first place.
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+3 #1 Philip & Pat Taylor 2009-07-24 11:02
Some churches have found a better solution. Here in Australia many Anglican churches are offering The Marriage Course - from Holy Trinity Brompton, UK (home of Alpha) - to couples, whether married or co-habiting. Over 7 weeks they get a chance to discover and practice the tools which will contribute to their relationship lasting a lifetime. Suitable for Christians and non-Christians, the course is unapologetically presented from a Christian base. Several of our couples married as a result of doing the course, without any pressure to do so. We are a lay couple who present the course on behalf of our church in our own home, where many couples feel more comfortable. It's great to be involved in such a ministry.
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