Almost two years to the day after Randy and Paula White announced their divorce, another Florida megachurch pastoring couple has made it official that their marriage is over. Zachery and Riva Tims, the founding pastors of New Destiny Christian Center (NDCC) in Orlando, Fla., have officially ended their 15-year marriage two years after it was discovered that Zachery Tims had an affair with an exotic dancer he met in Paris.
The Timses started NDCC in a hotel ballroom in 1996 and grew the church to more than 7,500 members. But in October 2007, Zachery Tims stood before the congregation and said he had committed "an indiscretion" and would be stepping down to seek healing. He returned to the pulpit three months later, after beginning counseling with a group of ministers including Bishop Joseph Garlington, pastor of Covenant Church in Pittsburg; Bishop Harold Ray, senior pastor of Redemptive Life Fellowship in West Palm Beach, Fla.; and Bishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams of Ghana.
Many members left the independent charismatic church in late 2007 after Judy Nguyen posted details of her affair with the pastor on the Internet. In an e-mail interview with Charisma magazine, Nguyen, who met Tims when he visited the men's club in Paris where she worked, said the long-distance affair lasted from August 2006 to October 2007. Riva Tims, 38, also left the church and filed for divorce in 2008. The couple share joint custody of their four children.
Tims, 40, said he has been involved in counseling since the affair became public. "I submitted myself to an ecumenical counsel of clergy that came into my ministry and ran the spiritual operations while I submitted myself to a counseling and ministry facility for several months out of state," he said in a written statement, adding that he is "still involved with monthly counsel. … It was never my intention to hurt anyone, and over this reality I have spent many days seeking God's grace. I am grateful for the love my family continues to extend to me as an individual and as a child of God."
Riva Tims would not comment on the circumstances surrounding the divorce, but said she and her ex-husband are cordial to each another. "There's a whole new level of forgiveness," she said. "It's a supernatural forgiveness that I can't even explain. Zachery and I are friends."
She said she is "moving forward" with her life and ministry. In 2008, she founded Majestic Life Institute and on July 12 opened Majestic Life Ministries church in Orlando. Much like NDCC, the church emphasizes outreach, with programs planned for children with special needs and youth gang prevention, as well as a job placement ministry for former inmates, drug addicts and alcoholics. "We literally have to go out into the community and model what this Bible really means," said Riva Tims, who plans to begin hosting a Christian TV talk show in the fall.
Zachery Tims said he has been "greatly humbled over these past few years. … It is now my focus to move forward whereby I can work to extend the love of God's grace and power as it was also extended to me." [charismamag.com, 8/14/09]
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1. Don't look to the man for the answers or keep your eyes on the man, for man will always fail you.
Keep your eyes on the Lord, for the Lord will NEVER fail you.
2. Judge not, lest you be judged.
3. Can Zachery Tims be fully restored? Yes! and could be elevated by God to a higher level than he was before this unfortunate incident. God does not take away the gifts he has bestowed upon us. Yes, he will not allow us to operate in those gifts for a season, however, he can invoke the operation of those gifts at any time of his coosing.
We are all given a gift of Choice and apparently, Zachery Tims, made a poor choice according to scripture, not according to us.
He now has the opportunity to reverse this through prayer and supplication, true repentance and doing over his first works. So his past does not have to determine his destiny. Making the right choice in the eyes of God can put him right back on the path of rightiousness.
God says, not to uncover our brother's nakedness (no pun intended), so why does it have to become an issue for public forums within christian newsletters and amongst christians in general.
Yes, the media is going to get a hold of the story and use it to denegrate christianity as a whole, but do fellow christians need to jump on the band wagon.
It makes us just as guilty, if not more so than non-christians, who don't know the word of God and thus don't know any better.
God said he will shake the largest Oak Trees and even his most elect will fall short of the mark.
Let's all pray for those who backslide or fall instead of discussing them on the internet.
The good news, is that although we all walk in flesh, that God is coming for a church "without spot or wrinkle," and that the Holy Spirit has a move we don't know about yet, and it's not about any one person or ministry.
If you are faithful and humble you recieved the later.
proud and undiscipline prepare for the coming judgement.
for it always start in the house of GOD.
It is a big thing because they are in the limelight. It is no more than stealing or lying. Sin is sin. Both of them need our prayers to help them get through this situation. It is not our job to judge anyone. I pray that they go and sin no more. That is to learn from this and not repeat it. At least he did confess it. That is more than some will do, saved or not!. I pray that God will heal their marriage and they get back together. This is just another lesson we should pay close attention to so that we will know what to do should we cross this path. None of us are exempt from this happening to us. I don't care how long you've been married.
Let the Saints pray for one another .
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