I was talking to a friend the other day about some of the stresses bi-vocational pastors face that are unique. During our brainstorming session, we hit upon one that struck a chordâ€”guilt.
You might recognize some of these thoughts:
1. I must be doing something wrong because ...
2. I have to work a second job.
3. My church isnâ€™t growing.
4. I canâ€™t afford to pay my staff a full salary.
5. Even I get bored during my sermons.
6. We havenâ€™t had a baptism in a year.
7. I canâ€™t get enough workers to â€¦
Moses knew he was special. His entire story said that he was chosen by God for a purpose. Then he messed up. His life didnâ€™t go according to his plan, and he ended up on the backside of nowhere for 40 years. Yup. He probably thought he had his chance and it was gone. Now he just had to do his best to face today.
Then God showed up. If you take time to read Moses' interactions with God in Exodus 3-7 and 14, you will find how Moses dealt with guilt and lack to be the person God called him to be.
1. He was honest with God. Moses didnâ€™t think a lot of himself, and he didnâ€™t pretend. He brought his doubts to God and let God address them.
2. He did what God said. After God addressed his fears and concerns, Moses moved forward.
3. He came back to God with more doubts. Seriouslyâ€”Moses didnâ€™t just hear what God said and did it. Every little wrinkle brought him back to God: â€śThey wonâ€™t listen ... ; he wonâ€™t listen ... â€ť
4. He expected God to fix the problems. Once he brought things to God, problems didnâ€™t hit Moses the same way. When things went wrong, he returned to God with the problem. It is almost like he kept coming back, saying, â€śI told you this wouldnâ€™t work. Whatâ€™s next?â€ť
5. He let God be his strength. Moses took hit after hit. People didnâ€™t listen, then they did and later deserted. Pharaoh kept promising compliance and reneging. Instead of feeling there must be something wrong with him, Moses did his part and brought it all back to God.
If you are walking around under a load of guilt, is it possible God isnâ€™t the one doing all the work? He called you. He put you in this impossible situationâ€”not so that you could feel the pain or win the war, but so that He would be glorified and His kingdom would grow.
As a coach, I talk to pastors who have hit the wall a lot. One of the best things you can do when you hit the wall of guilt is to remember how you got here. It is entirely possible that, like Moses and the 10 plagues, you are supposed to go through a time when you discover what doesnâ€™t work before you find what does. It is also possible that God is doing work you havenâ€™t seen yet.
Now it is your turn. In the comments below, please help us answer this question: How would you know if your frustration is Godâ€™s opportunity or just a mistake?
Kim Martinez is an ordained Assemblies of God pastor with a master's degree in theology from Fuller Seminary. She is a ministry and life development coach and can be found online at deepimprints.com. She writes a weekly column for ministrytodaymag.com.